Sunday, November 6, 2016

My Trip to Pakistan- Ch 2




You see, I was there in Lahore, to cue in the music of this Hindustani adaptation of 6th Century Sanskrit play by Bodhayan, ‘Bhagwatajjukiyam’ (‘The Saint & the Prostitute’, which by the way, has been especially invited in the Bharat Rang Mahotsav, NSD this year!). It is a hilarious play with steps based on Bharatnatyam and hence, the music is integral. I forgot the tapes entrusted to me the night before, at the hotel, which was quite far from the Alhamra stadium, the grounds for the theatre festival. But Baba Sir, our Director was prepared for it and as I wept, he told me not to worry as he had brought the copies with him. Not just in Lahore, sometimes people in Lucknow also asked me if he is my father and (my mother would probably have killed me if she knew) I have replied, ‘Almost’.

We were at a new place, the music system was old which had to be replaced and then I got the head phones very late, by which time the rushed run-throughs were beginning, as the performances were to start soon and people from the neighbouring stalls asked me to lower the volume... Only then I realised the music was loud as I tested the new system with head phones... But the harm was already done, as a senior actor from our team, you know how we tend to get extra tense during production, cursed our own performance due to the music!

This play has travelled with seniors of NIPA Rangmandli for 25 years. It has been so skilfully developed that the language has never been a barrier for European/ world audience that has been mesmerised by it. The team gets the required response and laughter at every punch! But this evening was special, as Hindustani is very close to the Lahori audience’s heart but sadly the magic was eluded as music got slightly delayed and the act was beginning to go haywire when thankfully, the music composer rushed over to suggest I take the head phones off; the extremely talented artists who were playing the saint and his student, their bald wigs started coming off; the seasoned actors were just trying to hold it together when out of nowhere the ‘Seth’/ rich man’s pearl necklace fell open and spilled on the stage; and the ‘Yamdoot’/ ‘messenger of death’ jumped hard while laughing, just the way he was supposed to, beside the dead body of the prostitute he had killed by mistake, but his crown fell nearby. The actor with great presence of mind, picked it up in one hand, pointed at it, laughed with the audience and made his exit, dancing to the music, which was right on track now.

The team's members have moved a lot, shifted homes... we just have this one photo available right now:)
This photo was taken when we were waiting for Sir to say something to us all, as we felt terrible but then rushed in a few cameramen. One of them was a co-ordinator, whom I had consoled in the morning as he had sat shocked after having received a scolding from the same senior actor. At this photo-op, I realized he may have become an admirer of mine. He was taking his time on a sophisticated camera; then, he indicated to me to put my chin down for correct posture. And I obliged... But some other people noticed it too. One of his friends asked, ‘Masla kya hai’? / ‘What’s the matter here?’ It was sweet, embarrassing and still feels nice... the idea of being admired by a sensitive and intelligent young man who sees you as a human being and respects your personal space.   

The crowd wanted to interact happily and Sir sincerely told them that we shall need a few minutes to discuss on the next performance. They finally left and we all desperately tried to convey that the next performance will be better, while our Director sat quietly. As I apologised for the music, he pointed out, that he had bungled up the lights too!

Next morning, some of the men from our team went to the Bazaar. The Hotel concierge was spared the heavy Urdu one of our seniors had been spewing on him ever since we had arrived, trying to coax him to engage in the ‘Jamhooriyat’ and ‘siyaasatdaan’ (democracy & politicians) discussion!
Dr. Sanjeev told us that the Taxi Driver refused to take money from them, “Aap India se aaye ho, aapse paisa lenge?/ “You have come from India. How can I take money from you?”

Our performance that evening was smooth as butter.

Next morning, the rest of us went to the old bazaar. Here we could see some women in Burqas. To meet back at that spot in half an hour, Anamika & I separated from the group. We were accosted by a beggar. Anamika told him she had change only in Indian currency. He said he will hold on to it for the rest of his life. He further told us that whenever ‘they’ threaten to ban Indian tv serials, these people threaten to shut the bazaars in turn! As we entered, an adolescent boy at the corner shoe-shop began singing “Om jai jagdish Hare”. He knew the full ‘aarti’ as we smiled and walked on.  We bought a nice suit piece and earrings.

Back at the Alhamra grounds we got to interact with a few co-ordinators who said something to the effect of, “Partition happened because of ‘lalas’/ businessmen who simply wanted to profit financially.” And then we told them how we were awestruck by the A-class gentry of Lahore that came to witness theatre and the amazingly classy suits/clothes the women wore!

We all came back to India happily after Gunjan (Kathak) and Late Ravi Nagar (Classical Singing) had performed their bits. We got to see a few nice acts by other teams as well.

After a couple of years, a friend asked me to work on a script for a play based on a book, wherein I learned how the writer had been tortured decades ago in the secret jail apparently, right under the Alhamra Stadium.

While the Indian Government has to do what is necessary for saving the innocent and punishing the guilty, let us keep our faith intact, and pray for wisdom. Karma, they say, is created by thoughts, words and actions. Best Wishes:)

Monday, October 31, 2016

My Trip to Pakistan




Trips are known to make or break relationships. This one did both... It broke some of us and made us even thicker friends. A dream trip that brought us to wonderfully sweet people who were so in love with India... The year was 2004 and the occasion was World Theatre Festival organized by the Rafi Peer group. The Peerzadas are a family highly respected in the theatre world, keeping alive the traditions set by their father Rafi Peer who along with our Raj Kapoor made the film ‘Neecha Nagar’...

So, 33 countries had participated and there were 10 teams invited from India. We were lucky, as we got the approval from our government and Visa to participate that year. Our theatre teachers were extremely well-read people. You had to see the kind of excitement the trip was generating in us all. Incidentally, my grand-parents had left everything behind and travelled from Sindh. My father’s elder brother was a teenager then. He had to take care of the whole family while their father was not heard of for two years. Their prayers were answered and he rejoined them.

Today, as I recall how my uncle wanted to travel to his homeland a few years ago along with many of us, his children and sisters, it pains that he himself is unwell and so are the conditions/ political climate.

Anyway, praying for the safety of humanity, let us indulge in some pleasant nostalgia.

It was the first week of cold Lucknowi November in 2004. We travelled by train with all our heavy props, to Amritsar. Extremely fortunately, courtesy Atamjeet Sir, we even got to stay at the private dormitories in the Golden Temple itself.
We had wonderful ‘langar’ at the Golden Temple and went out to try thick Amritsari milk getting boiled in huge clay pots in the busy road-side bazaars.

I vaguely remember, in the girls’ room only one young man of our team was allowed to sleep and there was some funny scuffle between him and one of my girl friends over the visit to the bathroom in the middle of the night, courtesy the delicious but thick milk.

Finally, came the morning of travelling to Lahore, Pakistan. The distance should get covered in half an hour, but it takes between 12 to 24 hours. The train waits until each and every person with visa boards the train. That day also the checking was extremely thorough. The visa officer and inspectors interviewed everyone individually, just before boarding. I was also asked why I had written on the form ‘Calcutta’ instead of ‘Kolkata’.  To which I answered, “Jab saare bhookhe-nango ko khila denge, aur koi kaam nahin bachega, tab likh denge, ‘Kolkata’!”/'When all hungry people are fed and clothed, I will write Kolkata', and he smiled.

The Sun had set. It was dark and hot in the train as we still waited for it to start. Our beloved music composer, Late Ravi Nagar was egged on by our Mridula Ma’am to sing. He had the most beautiful voice and in no time, Indians and Pakistanis alike, thronged to the windows, those who could not get inside the crowded compartment! Amid thunderous applause, he sang one sufi song after the other.

The train started (as opposed to ‘leaving’ which signifies speed) and we said hello to our fellow Pakistani travellers who had to travel back, the same evening of the morning they had arrived in India. They had been invited under a cultural exchange programme for few days but their visa had been stamped wrongly due to some glitch and so they all had to travel back that very day!

They were still trying to make us feel welcome to Pakistan. They told us how they loved our tv serials. We told them how we love their classic tv plays. One man suggested I should try ‘Kaphoore’ (fried goat-testicles) at the Lahore bazaar/ Chowk... Although he behaved very decently, I do not think that suggestion was very gentlemanly of him.

And yes, horsemen followed us on both sides so the train snailed on, as per the formers’ leisurely trot.

So we reached Lahore at around dawn. After some minor checking which happened in a few hours, we stepped out of the platform and were greeted by really smartly dressed, handsome young men, MBAs... A very pleasant sight indeed; they were coordinating the event, getting us and our luggage settled into buses and then the hotel.

We told one of the organizers, Mr. Usman Peerzada that our stage enclosure was very close to the road and the auto-rickshaw horns would really disturb the performance. He said, “Theek hai, Paanch baje ke baad rickshe nahin challenge”! /'Alright, after 5 pm rickshaws will not ply here'.

Using Stand up Comedy lingo- On the first evening we bombed and on the next one, we killed!

To be continued...






Sunday, October 23, 2016

How to Chose Your Wedding Cake



An old article written for an online publishing house, back in Delhi, circa 2007... We were given research material and asked to include all the points in the article...



My Wedding Cake


“Wolf, Peter Wolfe is my husband’s name.
I was brought up in the U.S.A. My family had migrated during World War II. A German couple helped my young Jewish parents to flee from the clutches of The Third Reich. I was born on a big American Carrier in the middle of the Atlantic Ocean.

Time and distance had not come between their friendship. I was brought up to believe I would be married to Wolf. As a young girl, I was petrified. I loved my parents and understood what their feelings of gratitude were, but the idea of giving their daughter to the wolf! I somehow could not be comfortable with that.

As a result, whenever I saw wedding cakes, I would imagine, on top of my wedding cake, the bride and the wolf!

When I was old enough, they showed me a picture of “ my wolf”. He was such a dish! I could not believe it. We started writing to each other, became friends and eventually decided to honor both our parents’ wishes. He agreed to live with me here. The day was decided. He came with his parents and we got married. And this honey, is the cake my Father baked in his Bakery for my wedding”, said Mrs. Wolf pointing towards the classic photograph on the wall. The three-tier cake had the Bride and the Wolf!

I had gotten Mrs. Wolfe’s reference through a colleague at work. I really did not know him that much, he just happened to pass by when I was asking my close friend Betty about which Bakery to book for my cake. We had decided to get married exactly three months hence. John said, “I could not help overhearing, may I suggest “Jewish Bakery” at Eleventh Street? It is very special. She will give you all the trimmings you want and suggest something better keeping your style in mind. You must book your cake as soon as possible. Bakers generally take 4 to 6 months’ booking. Give my reference to the owner Mrs. Wolfe. She might be able to do something for you. Well, all the best”.

Mrs. Wolfe showed me the big album containing the best of her previous work. She explained how the trends keep changing. “Actually, the cake should be the culmination of the rest of the décor, the theme of your wedding.

“If you were having an outdoor wedding I would have suggested something like this icing décor. Look at the basket weave and the fresh floral pattern. Perfect for a Spring/ Summer wedding.

“Since your wedding is in Fall, how about this square one, with sugared fruit and Autumn leaves?

“These are especially made for winter weddings”, said Mrs. Wolfe as she showed me some beautiful cakes that had edible snowflakes and pinecones.


“Like I said dear, the trends keep changing. Nowadays, people have started going back to the traditional three tier cakes…” Even before she had finished I said, “Yes, actually I want the one you had, but without the wolf”.

We both laughed. Mrs. Wolfe asked, “What flavor do you want dear? Why don’t you sample some of these pastries and tell me which one you like the best. You can also have three different flavors for the three tiers.”

Mrs. Wolfe was still smiling even as she wrote in her order book, ‘…smooth butter cream, lacework icing, silver base…’ while I admired the photograph of her wedding cake.

The cake was something our guests absolutely loved. It added to the splendor of the Evening. When Steve and I exchanged our vows, my colleague John Wolfe and his mother were there as special guests. I had the hall set up in old classic style too so all of it looked very ethereal. Three of my friends who got married after me have gone to the Jewish Bakery.




Monday, September 26, 2016

Karma & The Clown

                    
Dolly with Monika who helped with make-up, 13/09/2016
'Karma' is created, they say, by thoughts, words and deeds... 

This is a story of how I became a clown; specifically, at a friend's son's B'day party...:D

  "If she wants to be a clown, then let her be the clown of the class", said the class VIII teacher Ms. Ghouse... She may have said it sarcastically; I tend to take things at face value...

 I finally dressed up as a clown at a kid's B'day party... But even as the idea of doing so was taking shape, I came across a workshop to be conducted by someone whose show my little niece Diva and I had really admired almost one and half years ago...



Diva with 'Popo', Rupesh Tillu @ Prithvi, 20/05/2015
"Popo! Tie your shoe-laces, or you'll fall down!" All the kids sitting up front inside Prithvi Theatre cried out to help the over-confident and bungling clown... We loved him, adults and kids alike, in his show about Popo and the Frog King. I got in touch with Rupesh Tillu on fb and jumped at the chance of training at a workshop with him.

The Clowns in September (9th -11th), 2016, found themselves under guidance from Rupesh Tillu. Pic by a friend.
A workshop where we learned among other things, how to 'Connect with the Audience', 'Dare to Share' and 'Comfort the Disturbed' in a very limited time:) We are all hoping to get more training from him:)



Monday, September 19, 2016

Sharda @ Ganesh Puja

'Rangoli' by ShrushTi  at the lobby...
 So, Sharda invited me to her place in Mulund... It's like going to another city from where I stay in Malad. So, she wanted to make it worth my while by calling me for a stay-over and enjoy the festivities. This was during the Ganesh Puja in her building, as, she's relatively free during the holidays.












(I cannot help but admire all married women who look after family and kids). I took a bus and reached in time for lovely lunch and colourful cake that was made by her daughter for the cooking competition the evening before that.
This evening they had the dance contest with wonderful Marathi songs. The manDap was painted by the boys.


Sharda helped me dress up...
With Sharda and her little sister Pushpa...


Her little sister has kids of her own now...
 I thoroughly enjoyed myself; and love the fact that this year there was a definite surge in charity instead of the general splurge... I hope next year onwards the 'Dhol's and music systems would also have a decibel cut-off limit.